The flow 廢寢忘食

According to numerous psychological researches, happiness is a sudden experience of the "flow"--you're so much enjoying something that you lost track of time. Many people try to recreate such status, so as to find "happiness."

However, what if the "ultimate happiness of life" happens? That ever part of your life becomes so enjoyable, and no part of life is unenjoyable? My experience is horrifying instead of ecstasy--you lost track of the time 24/7/365 and is racing yourself to the terminal of life FULL SPEED! On the contrary to the search of the "flow", you try to unbuckle yourself from it, yet this new searching process becomes an even faster flow, since it's even more fun things coming...

At the end of the year you try to use "mindfulness", to at least take full experience of this rushing life, and try to do everything you can to help people who have searched for the flow so hard but gone the wrong way. Yet this juggle of life calling is so much fun that makes the flow faster again...

各類心理研究發現，快樂是一種「廢寢忘食、忘記時間」的狀態。正當人們都在想辦法讓自己投入看似有趣的事物、想讓自己廢寢忘食來殺時間時，小弟不知從何時開始，就被一個可怕的問題困擾著：如果一天二十四小時中的每分每秒都變成「廢寢忘食」的趣味事物，時間分分秒秒從指尖流逝，該怎麼辦？？根據個人經驗，生命是以極速朝終點衝刺！救命呀～太可怕了！該怎麼停下來？當你想要嘗試其他各種辦法讓時間變慢，卻發現在嘗試的過程又會遇到更多新奇事物，讓時間變得更快...到頭來只能盡可能用「細細品味人生」這種傳統方法，來儘量把握快速流逝的時光。並且儘量去幫助其他試圖尋找「廢寢忘食」事物，卻事與願違的人們。然而，在幫助的過程中，由於有興趣，以及助人為樂的關係，時間又變得更快了...

"Never Work Again, and Get Happy and Rich"

Hi, All, during some sleepless nights lately, I kept wondering whether I should write this book in Chinese first or English first? Then I realized why not a bilingual one simultaneously!

I'm humbled and guessing I'm such a lucky guy who has achieved this status for more than a decade, and always want to share the systematic way to the world, starting with my friends everywhere. Now is the time! It's a powerful theory I invented called "3P's of Career Management."--Passion, Personality, Professionalism. With this tool, everyone can achieve this ultimate status of life within weeks, or even in hours! Theoretically, it can even be made into an app.

Let me share with you the theory every now and then ~ and change the world. Starting from you and me.

嗨！大家～ 在近日初老失眠症頭困擾中，一直在思考到底該先寫中文書還是英文書...就在泡澡解失眠時忽然頓悟～ 何不同時寫雙語的呢？並且從身邊的朋友開始！

小弟何德何能，在謙卑之中意識到自己在十年前就達到了這個狀態，並一直想將此系統性工具分享大家，而現在時機成熟了。這是一套小弟自行研發的、稱為「生涯三驅力」的理論：興趣、性格、專業能力。經過十年演進，成功率長期都是趨近百分之百。透過這項工具，不論哪個國家的每個人，都可以在數週內、甚至在數小時內，系統性地達成此一狀態、並且持續終生。小弟將會ㄧ有空就來此社團分享由實務歸納而來的理論、案例，與經驗。讓我們來改變世界吧～

理論上，這項專業將可以被製作成一個手機app。這個社團背後的理論有個終結理想，就是「這世界不用再有人需要工作了～」同時可以解決婚姻與家庭問題。理論上啦。但確實可以達成。